Just finish watching the 4th disc of "The Beachboys". In this episode, its all abt this guy, who's working for this big financial company in Tokyo. Good job, good prospect, pretty gf....gave em all up just to spend his days working as a motel attendant earning meagre pay and having to spend time away from his pretty gf. His Immediate Superior came over to see how he's doing, and realise that his so call "dream" is actually an irrealistic load of crap. Then he told him, "You gonna get wat u wanna do now. But when u've failed, u gonna look back at times like these and start regretting. Regret for not doing the norms. Regret for not sticking ur feet onto the ground and do wat others do too". The guy ponder, call the gf, and ask the gf if he has done wrong. The gf said. "Do you want me to tell ya that wat u did was right? I dun see wat u did was right in any aspect. But since this is wat ya always wanna do, why not give it a try? If u failed, you can always start over again. Just do wat u deem fit right now". Ok, who do u think is right? The superior or the gf? The Immediate Superior is in his 50s and have seen it all. Wanted to be a sailor but choose to live a normal simple life without the thrills and spills of a sailor. The gf, typical japanese gal who's purpose of living is to serve her man well and let him fuck her all the way he want, obviously doesnt dare to go against her man's wish. But she have a pt too, cos she know once the japanese bastard made up their mind, nothing she say would change his mind. How i wish i can have this kinda gf too. I would definitely wanna hear tat kinda thing said to me. I hate my current lifestyle now...if i was given a chance to choose to live the kinda life i want, i would too. Who cares abt regretting in the future(like i've never regret something before). Who cares abt having to start all over again(like i have a choice to choose not to if i fail). I dunno abt u guys, for me i'll definitely choose the latter. Do first, tok later, whether i succeed or fail. I know its kinda irresponsible to not think of consequences. But if u gonna tie urself down with consequences, how will ya ever succeed in life? How will ya know without even trying? Then ya gonna regret fer not trying during ur dying breath? Come on, get real, have some entrepreneurship in ya. Dare to dream, dare to try, dont be like some guniang and scare this scare that. Or maybe u deserve to lead a simple life and just die with a truck fulla regrets. Anyway, each to his best....