I finally realised why pple kept asking why. Becos of not keeping in touch often; becos of not interested for a period of time; becos of having much better things to do than to look each others up. So after missing for a period of time, pple resurface and start remembering their friend, and start to be interested with wat happen during the period they were gone. Hence the questions. Some ask smart questions where u enjoy answering them, while others simply ask dumb questions that makes u pissed off. Its frustrating when u have to keep repeating the same old thing. Singaporeans are so bz trying hard to survive nowadays, that they neglect the importance of seeking life beyond life. They try to summarise thing in one go to save time and do other things which they think is more essential to surviving. So while they r doing these essential things, they put their friends aside for a period of time, and then come and find out one shot wat has happen to them during that missing period. Time saving isnt it? Instead of finding out all the time by keeping contact, they find out once awhile. Or maybe their circle is too wide to keep in touch with each and everyone too often. Whichever the case is, its sad to know that, we r leading the life of isolating oneself when there are so many people around.....